Don't let anybody tell you something different and look towards the positive
Hey guys I was just thinking that I need to get myself back into working out again because I got lazy I am not going to lie but I do watch what I eat and I did loose some weight but I wanna be in shape again and I miss those days where I’m not out of breath for walking up some steps or as you say feeling winded so I am gonna make it a mission to be more active for me and not because its a new year cause its just bull shit to keep hearing someone say oh I’m going to loose weight because its a new year like seriously don’t wanna make any promises I am gonna loose weight by the time I expected or if I am going to be struggling smh but any who I am going to try though
- Reject the Diet Mentality. Throw out the diet books and magazine articles that offer you false hope of losing weight quickly, easily, and permanently. Get angry at the lies that have led you to feel as if you were a failure every time a new diet stopped working and you gained back all of the weight. If you allow even one small hope to linger that a new and better diet might be lurking around the corner, it will prevent you from being free to rediscover Intuitive Eating.
- Honor Your Hunger. Keep your body biologically fed with adequate energy and carbohydrates. Otherwise you can trigger a primal drive to overeat. Once you reach the moment of excessive hunger, all intentions of moderate, conscious eating are fleeting and irrelevant. Learning to honor this first biological signal sets the stage for re-building trust with yourself and food.
- Make Peace with Food. Call a truce, stop the food fight! Give yourself unconditional permission to eat. If you tell yourself that you can’t or shouldn’t have a particular food, it can lead to intense feelings of deprivation that build into uncontrollable cravings and, often, bingeing When you finally “give-in” to your forbidden food, eating will be experienced with such intensity, it usually results in Last Supper overeating, and overwhelming guilt.
- Challenge the Food Police. Scream a loud “NO” to thoughts in your head that declare you’re “good” for eating under 1000 calories or “bad” because you ate a piece of chocolate cake. The Food Police monitor the unreasonable rules that dieting has created . The police station is housed deep in your psyche, and its loud speaker shouts negative barbs, hopeless phrases, and guilt-provoking indictments. Chasing the Food Police away is a critical step in returning to Intuitive Eating.
- Respect Your Fullness. Listen for the body signals that tell you that you are no longer hungry. Observe the signs that show that you’re comfortably full. Pause in the middle of a meal or food and ask yourself how the food tastes, and what is your current fullness level?
- Discover the Satisfaction Factor. The Japanese have the wisdom to promote pleasure as one of their goals of healthy living In our fury to be thin and healthy, we often overlook one of the most basic gifts of existence—the pleasure and satisfaction that can be found in the eating experience. When you eat what you really want, in an environment that is inviting and conducive, the pleasure you derive will be a powerful force in helping you feel satisfied and content. By providing this experience for yourself, you will find that it takes much less food to decide you’ve had “enough”.
- Honor Your Feelings Without Using Food. Find ways to comfort , nurture, distract, and resolve your issues without using food. Anxiety, loneliness, boredom, anger are emotions we all experience throughout life. Each has its own trigger, and each has its own appeasement. Food won’t fix any of these feelings. It may comfort for the short term, distract from the pain, or even numb you into a food hangover. But food won’t solve the problem. If anything, eating for an emotional hunger will only make you feel worse in the long run. You’ll ultimately have to deal with the source of the emotion, as well as the discomfort of overeating.
- Respect Your Body. Accept your genetic blueprint. Just as a person with a shoe size of eight would not expect to realistically squeeze into a size six, it is equally as futile (and uncomfortable) to have the same expectation with body size. But mostly, respect your body, so you can feel better about who you are. It’s hard to reject the diet mentality if you are unrealistic and overly critical about your body shape.
- Exercise—Feel the Difference. Forget militant exercise. Just get active and feel the difference. Shift your focus to how it feels to move your body, rather than the calorie burning effect of exercise. If you focus on how you feel from working out, such as energized, it can make the difference between rolling out of bed for a brisk morning walk or hitting the snooze alarm. If when you wake up, your only goal is to lose weight, it’s usually not a motivating factor in that moment of time.
- Honor Your Health—Gentle Nutrition. Make food choices that honor your health and tastebuds while making you feel well. Remember that you don’t have to eat a perfect diet to be healthy. You will not suddenly get a nutrient deficiency or gain weight from one snack, one meal, or one day of eating. It’s what you eat consistently over time that matters, progress not perfection is what counts.
May have reblogged this before but posting again because it is so useful!
Good morning guys so I’m putting up a new post to share my experience with living on my own….My parents have so much doubt that I come back home when they were the ones pushing me to move out so I find funny when it came time to leave the nest they didn’t want me leaving for that matter but so far I love living on my own especially with my best friend lydia we manage to keep each other sane lol but I learned a lot from the experience on living on my own like budgeting my money and want not like I can’t spend like I used when I was living at home with my parents and no matter how much I love my parents but they gotta let their daughter leave the nest and oh yeah I’m still trying to loose weight no matter how hard it is too loose
Hey guys haven’t been on here in a while but I’m super excited to say I’m moving out my house so I’m like super excited even though I’m nervous as well because I am finally going to be on my own and my mom doesn’t agree with it but I’m old enough to do everything on my own so let’s see how this turns out and want not
Hey I haven’t been on here for a while cause didn’t have access to my computer and I have been working and studying shame on me for not getting connected with my tumblr community smh but anywho so far my weight loss is going good and oh yeah I was able to fit in the Bridesmaid dress for my brothers wedding I dropped 3 dress sizes yay me and I am proud of myself for it but I will try to come on here and write down everything …